Monday, February 1, 2010

01/15/2010 - TIGER SENDS RELIEF / CLOONEY PITCHES IN / HOT MESS OR HOT GARBAGE?? / CVS ROBBED HMMM...




Local Buzz:
"State Warns Residents Of Possible Haiti Relief Scams"



*NASHVILLE, Tenn. - Members of Brent Gambrell Ministries have been busy since a devastating earthquake hit Haiti on Tuesday. The group has set up a drop point for people who want to make donations.
"100 percent of every dime that come into this ministry, of ever donation of any kind that comes in will go to Haiti," said Missy Wilson from Brent Gambrell Ministries.

The mission group has worked to support Haiti since 2003 and is spearheading its largest relief effort to date for the people of that country.

"This is something we've been doing for 8 years, since we're in Haiti 10 to 12 times a year," said ministry member Kelly Mills.

The pictures of destruction coming out of Haiti have donations pouring into the ministry.

"It really tugs at your heart strings and you want to do something," said Tennessee Secretary of State Tre Hargett at the Capitol on Thursday.

Hargett warned residents that natural disasters also brings out the scam artists.

"Somebody can set up a web site like that and look very real and be taking credit card numbers and doing something with that money," said Hargett.

Hargett recommends residents research any solicitation for donations. He said if a company has a problem providing information to you, that should send up a red flag.

The Secretary of State also said you should be leery of door to door solicitations for money to help in the relief effort.

The state does have a web site that outlines different steps you can take to safeguard yourself from scam artists. TN Division of Charitable Solicitations and Gaming







"Woman Robs Bellevue CVS"



*BELLEVUE, Tenn. - Police have been searching for a woman who held up a Bellevue pharmacy.
A woman wearing a hoodie walked into the CVS pharmacy on Highway 70 South and showed a semi-automatic handgun.

Police said she demanded that the clerk give a bag of oxycontin. After she got the bag of pills, she took off.

Anyone who has any information on the woman's identity should call police.







"Police Arrest Suspect In Franklin Street Burglaries"



*NASHVILLE, Tenn. - A man accused of a string of burglaries was behind bars Friday morning.
Police charged Jason Dominguez with vehicle burglary and theft.

Investigators said Dominguez committed a number of burglaries in the Franklin Street area and stole at least one car.

In all, authorities said they think Dominguez stole more than $11,000 worth of goods.

Friday morning, the suspect was being held on a $65,000 bond

Top Stories:







"THINGS GETTING EVEN WORSE IN HAITI"



*The situation in Haiti has gotten desperate enough that people are now blocking roads with the corpses of their loved ones. According to a photographer from Time magazine, at least two intersections around the devastated capital of Port-au-Prince were clogged with dead bodies. Shaul Schwarz told Reuters "They are starting to block the roads with bodies; it's getting ugly out there. People are fed up with getting no help." Organizations such as rapper Wyclef Jean's Yele Haiti Foundation are raising cash, but there's no indication as to how quickly it might arrive in the earthquake-ravaged country.







"Man admits he plotted in 2008 to kill Obama"



*JACKSON, Tenn. An Arkansas man pleaded guilty Thursday to charges he plotted to kill then-Sen. Barack Obama and dozens of other black people in 2008.
Paul Schlesselman, 19, of Helena-West Helena, Ark., pleaded guilty in U.S. District Court to one count of conspiracy, one count of threatening to kill and harm a presidential candidate and one count of possessing a firearm in furtherance of a crime of violence.

He faces up to 10 years in prison when he is sentenced in April.

A co-defendant, Daniel Cowart, 21, of Bells, Tenn., remains in custody.

Authorities have described the two as white supremacist skinheads who hatched a plot for a cross-country robbery and killing spree that was to culminate with an attack on Obama, then a candidate for president.

They were arrested in October 2008 and have been held without bail since.







"Accused Teacher Seeks New Trial"



*PORTLAND, Tenn. - Attorneys asked that the former Portland High School teacher convicted of having sex with one of her students be granted a new trial.
The grounds? Insufficient evidence and the exclusion of an expert witness for the defense.

In September, 37-year-old Sandy Binkley was convicted and sentenced to 12 years in prison on two counts of statutory rape by an authority figure. The incidents happened in March 2008 with a 17-year-old student. Binkley later claimed she was raped.

The motion has been scheduled to be heard in court in February. If it's denied, attorneys said they will move forward with an appeal.







"Marine's Widow, Baby Return To Japan"



*NASHVILLE, Tenn. (AP) - A local marine's widow who has been fighting immigration laws to remain in the United States to raise their 1-year-old child has returned to Japan with no clear resolution in sight.
Sgt. Michael Ferschke, from Maryville, married Hotaru Nakama by phone in 2008 while he was stationed in Iraq and she was in Japan. He died in combat a month later, but a 1950s immigration rule said the couple's marriage was not consummated though she was already pregnant with their child.

Hotaru and her now 1-year-old boy, Mikey, have been staying temporarily with her in-laws in Tennessee for the past year after her permanent visa application was denied.

Robin Ferschke, Michael's mother, said Monday that Hotaru and Mikey left the United States on Jan. 4.

Jim Jeffries, a spokesman for U.S. Sen. Lamar Alexander, said a private bill that would allow her to stay is still pending in Congress.







Celeb News:
"Conan Flying the Coop Next Week"



*CONAN LEAVING TONIGHT SHOW NEXT WEEK
Looks like Conan O'Brien's last night as host of the Tonight Show will be next Friday.

A source tells People magazine, "Conan does not currently plan on doing any more new shows after next week." N-B-C says the show has been scheduled for months to go on hiatus starting on January 25th. A rep for Conan says reports of the host leaving next week are "not true." But T-M-Z says Jay Leno has just made a deal with N-B-C giving him the Tonight Show from 11:35 to 12:35.

You might want to TiVo next Friday's Tonight Show, because you may not see Conan on T-V for a long time. N-B-C Universal head honcho Jeff Zucker has reportedly threatened to keep the comedian off the tube for three-and-a-half years if he didn't accept the Tonight Show's move to 12:05.







"CLOONEY TO THE RESCUE"



*George Clooney will host a bi-coastal telethon to raise money for Haiti in the wake of the earthquake that has devastated the country.
The telethon is set to air next Friday on all M-T-V Networks channels. All proceeds will go toward relief efforts. The lineup of celebrities and performers will be announced in the next few days.







"TIGER WOODS DONATING TO EARTHQUAKE VICTIMS"



*Tiger Woods, who hasn't been seen in public since his sex scandal broke, is planning to send aid to Haiti. At least that's what Russell Simmons says. The hip-hop mogul tells the New York Daily News, "Tiger Woods is working on sending a mobile hospital with 50 E-M-Ts to go set up a triage." The donation would amount to three-million dollars.







Black History:
"Martin Luther King Jr. Born"



*January 15, 1929-Martin Luther King Jr. born in Atlanta. He was first given the name of Michael Luther King Jr. The name was formally changed to Martin at a later date.







Good News:



*The Gospel Music Association (G-M-A) is preparing for the 41st annual G-M-A Dove Awards, April 21st at the Grand Ole Opry House in Nashville. Natalie Grant and Mercy Me frontman Bart Milliard will host this year's festivities, set to include performances from Donald Lawrence, Jason Crabb and Grant. The show airs April 24th on the Gospel Music Channel.
Relationship:







"RELATIONSHIPS: Quick Break-Ups Are Best"
*We're already a couple weeks into the New Year, so there are no excuses to hold onto that loser boyfriend you vowed to get rid of. It's time to start the year with a clean slate, but when, exactly, is the most convenient time to break up?

There's really no perfect time to dump your boyfriend, so don't wait for one.

Instead, plan for a civilized, uninterrupted meeting as soon as possible and get it over with.

Breakups should be just like Band-Aids -- rip it off quickly and painfully. This sounds cruel, but it's much more sympathetic than dragging things out, giving your guy hope, only to waste everyone's time.







A health note:
"MENTAL HEALTH: Make The Most of Every Minute"



*We all know that when something becomes scarce, its value goes up. This idea does not just apply to material goods. Researchers have found that time can also be an extremely valuable commodity, especially when it's in short supply.
According to a study, thinking that we have a limited amount of time remaining to participate in an activity makes us appreciate the activity that much more and motivates us to make the most of it.

Psychologist Jaime L. Kurtz from Pomona College investigated how our attitude toward an activity changes when time is short. She had college students writing about their college experiences -- and compared the notes of those who were graduating soon and those who still had a long time until graduation.

The students who were graduating soon were more motivated to take advantage of the time they had left in school and participate in as many events as possible.







Mess of the Day:
"Does Pregnancy Mean Anything?"



*If this is how mom gets down while she's pregnant, there's no telling what kind of upbringing the kid will have once he arrives.







Thought for the day:



" It doesn't matter to me; either life has ups or downs. But it does matter to me how I disciplined the right principles to reach my goal!" --- Written in 2010 by Prabhakara Rao Eluru --- Kentucky

Thursday, April 23, 2009

The Awakening

I was going through some old purses that I have not used in awhile and came across a little book. I was reading a little book today and it pretty much exposed what I have been living for the past 7 years. You think when you meet a person you see things you like and dislike but for the sake of like you tend to overlook the things you dislike. This is always normal because we as human beings always genuinely look for the good in any situation. No one walks though life always looking for the worse to happen... do they? Anyhow, the exact behavior I have experienced was so clear to me, situation for situation, accusation after accusation. The thoughtfulness was so great that it made me overlook the distress and disrespect I was going through. I continually made excuses of why I felt so much tension... Oh he was just having a bad day, he is sad because he is thinking about his loved ones that passed or he is having a hard time adjusting to his new job...But death after death, and job after job nothing changed. I thought many times it was alright to call it quits but something in me wanted to make it work. The more I tried, the more counseling I got the worse things got, so eventually I gave up. Not saying I gave up on the person but I gave up on making excuses for something I had no control of or over. You can not make a grown man do anything.

Some times the more you change gives them more of an excuse to continue to treat you worse. When I thought is was my hair, I changed colored or cut my hair. When I thought it was my clothes, I went out of my way to get something nice to wear..but then when I dressed in a way that made me feel good about myself I was told where and when I could or could not wear certain things. When that did not work I made sure I was getting my feet and nails done more than usual and when that transpired I found that I was getting pretty for someone else...who? I really do not have a clue, let me know because whenever I leave the house 99.9% of the time I have all of the kids with me. So if I was not home, work or church what else is left. I was not able to work overtime because I always picked up the kids, fed the kids bathed the kids. The funny thing is that on paper the day care only has a total of 5 times that the kids were actually picked up by him. When it was time for us to go out the excuse was always that we did not have a baby sitter. Saturdays we did the movie thing but that was family time and I was cool with that but if one of the kids went to sleep he would get bothered.

I was never obsessed with him but I was in love with the thought of having a cute family. It always felt good that we were always doing things together and the sad part about most of the wonderful times caught on camera were either times that I simply enjoyed the ride and did not have much to talk about or had a headache so bad from being upset just minutes before. I felt as if I wanted things to work because of the outsiders looking in. They always said he was a good father because he did things with his kids, not to discredit anything but if you maximise the time you spend with your kids by buying them things, taking them to the movies and dancing with them of course you will have fun so that is great.

Yes it is wonderful, but I should not have to go through life making excuses on why daddy is not home or that daddy is working when in actuality he is at Red Lobster with his girl/best friend who knows play by play everything that is going on in our relationship. She knows where I work, knows when I am home, knows when I go to school, the bathroom and church. She gets early morning texts on what is going on with my husband how he is feeling about me and how much he is missing her. I have them all... by simply forwarding them to my cell phone from his. so for me to be told that I have a problem and it is me makes me think hmmmmmmmmmmm... if you are done than be done. I have been threatened by her and him. So at that point is when I left with what matters most to me and that is my babies :). They now live in a tension free environment that has love in it. Not saying that they were not loved by their father or mother but it is hard to properly love your children when there is obvious friction between the parents. The kids know they can sense everything and they are very smart. We have told them time and time again and for me that is one time too many, that mommy and daddy love you very much but we don't see eye to eye.

The part about that I dislike the most is I have never been in a relationship that I would position myself to involve me to say that to a child especially my own or much less argue with a child present..until recently. I have been in 3 previous relationships that have involved children and we have gotten along very well and as far as disagreements are concerned, that never happened around the kids and we knew how to talk things out without yelling, cursing or making each other feel less than a person. We only dealt with the issues at hand and did not place blame on each other or call each other names.

All of these are signs. Signs I should have noticed... I will share more later but for now answer the question below I pasted from Essence website.

"Have you ever been obsessed with a man? How did you get over it and move on with your life?"

Thursday, April 16, 2009

Fear

You empower the enemy when you walk in fear. Do not walk in fear. Snatch the fear away from them.

Moving in a different direction

I have been though hell and back but nothing compares to what I am feeling right now. I was recently in a situation that resulted in a altercation seems like it was based on things. Things that are superficial instead of addressing the real situation at hand. As I reflect on things it will never be the same. The more you listen to other people and choose to be around other people you often forget about the one you are supposed to be with. What they like, what they eat and a communication barrier exists. I have come to the point that I accept the fact that certain things you cant get rid of and I was told by his own father that you can't make a grown man do anything. this is the 3rd time I was told this by him out of a 8 year period. So this is something I have to live...excuse me something I choose not to live with. I have tried over and over to figure things out but it is not working, then something funny happened. TBN was on and I was doing my homework like 1 am in the morning because I am pretty much afraid to fall asleep...but some one said on the TV "Stopped trying to figure things out, that can not be explained and just give it to God" that made me immediately stop what I was doing and listen...then he said it again and that is when I laughed.

Smooches!

Sunday, February 8, 2009

Ok Tea Time, Followed by bee time

I have had a long day and still have not watched the movie I so longed to see. "The Secret Life of Bees" I picked it up from Red Box so it is not like I am pressed to return it but I have finally reached a point where I can regroup and have a little me time. I haven't read the reviews so I am not aware of what I will be viewing. What I do know... the cast in this film are pretty great and I did see a few people red in the face when they were leaving the theatre. I am excited but at the same time I would like to rest. I am looking forward to the veiwing but if I should go to sleep, apologies are in order in advance. If you have already viewed this movie please feel free to share your thoughts. I will give my review once I reach the end.

Smooches!!

LALA

A Superficial moment!


Oh, I had to post this! Yes, I know it is most superficial but I had to show the perfect arch. Since I will try to stay environmentally friendly I will have you know that this was done with my best set of tweesers and rubbing alcohol. Really clean so I had to show the perfect eye before I lose touch. If I don't take care of me who will. Self preservation is very important in this day and age so why not plus I saved myself the agony of waxing.
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